From Scarcity to Sanctuary: How I Reclaimed Joy and Alignment
When my husband left, I went into scarcity mode. I pretty much did not spend a penny unless it was absolutely essential. As a stay-at-home mom for years without a true corporate career to fall back on, I felt lost. My sense of stability was shaken, and I clung to what I could control—my spending, my home, and my identity as a mom.
For a long time, I kept the house just as it was. Most of the things in it were “mine” anyway, but truthfully, it felt like a monument to the life I thought I’d be living. I was devastated by how easily he seemed to walk away, claiming he shouldn’t be in a relationship—only to be in another one within four months (cue the eye roll).
Don’t get me wrong, we had our issues, but I was willing to do the work. And while I’ve made peace with the fact that he wasn’t, it took me a long time to let go of the anger and heartbreak. I’ve done a lot of healing since then, but some breakthroughs surprise you—and that’s where the full moon in Cancer comes in.
Ever since that full moon, I’ve been nesting. Hard. Not the frantic, reorganize-everything kind of nesting, but an intentional transformation of my space. By "redecorate," I don’t mean a total overhaul—let’s be real, I’m still frugal-ish—but rearranging and sprucing things up with meaning. For years, I kept all of my "witchy poo" things confined to my office, a space I kept calling my sanctuary but never really felt aligned with. Now? My entire home is my sanctuary.
Crystals have always been a big part of my life. If you know me, you know about my grandfather’s collection. He passed when I was six, and a few of his rocks (as I always called them) made their way to me. Recently, my uncle passed along more of his collection, and placing them around my home has brought me so much joy. It’s been this beautiful process of displaying things that carry meaning—sentimental items from family, things I truly love, and even new loves, like the color pink.
Yes, pink. Me. The person who once thought pink was not my thing now has pink accents all over the house. Who even am I? But that’s the point, isn’t it? This newfound energy feels like a sign of my growth and my readiness to fully accept myself. No more playing small, no more hiding who I am. It feels so good. I can honestly say I am the happiest I’ve ever been.
Lately, I’ve also been journaling more, and themes of authenticity, alignment, and balance keep coming up. These ideas weave through my personal life and my professional work. Of course, astrology is one of my greatest tools for finding and maintaining that balance. It’s helped me understand how to align with my purpose, and I think a big part of my happiness comes from finally being unapologetically me. I’m showing up for myself, for my passions, and for the life I’m creating—a life that feels true and expansive.
What I’ve learned through all of this is that we don’t have to wait for permission to start over. Sometimes, a full moon—or just a moment of clarity—is all it takes to start reclaiming your space, your energy, and your joy. If you’re in a place where you’re questioning who you are or what you’re meant to do, let this be your sign: your happiness is worth the effort. It’s worth the risk of letting go of what no longer serves you and embracing what does. It’s worth a little pink, a few crystals, and a whole lot of AUTHENTICITY.
If you’re ready to start creating a life that feels aligned and joyful, I’m here to help. As someone who’s been through the upheaval of life transitions and come out the other side stronger and more aligned, I know how transformative this process can be. Whether it’s through astrology, journaling, or just creating intentional space in your life, I’d love to guide you on your journey. Here’s how to explore how we can work together to help you reclaim your energy, align with your purpose, and find your joy.
So, here I am, rearranging furniture, rediscovering joy, and living in alignment with my purpose. And you know what? It’s pretty amazing here.